question #1... How do you know when you love someone? I don't mean in the romantic sense only, I mean really love someone. What do you ask of that person? What does that person ask of you? I think the answer is "nothing." I really think that when you love someone there isn't much asking at all. I think that unconditional love is much more like an offer to another person... I think when you show your love it takes the form of offering patience, being understanding, offering support, being kind, offering open communication, and offering the opportunity to regain trust or forgiveness when the one you love has hurt you.

Question #2... When and How do you tell Her/Him?.. Well, I'm stumped on that one.